loneliness


Loneliness

Remember, loneliness and aloneness are not synonymous, notwithstanding what the dictionaries go on saying. It is not a question of language; it is something existential. Loneliness is negative – you are missing something; aloneness is positive – you have found something.
 The unenlightened seeks the other because it is his need; he is needy and greedy. He grabs the other, he clings to the other. He is always afraid the other may leave. Husbands are afraid, wives are afraid, parents are afraid, children are afraid, everybody is afraid. Even your so-called religious teachers are afraid their disciples may leave them, so they have to concede and compromise with the disciples...
 Loneliness is like a wound, aloneness is like a flower. Loneliness is sick – Soren Kierkegaard has called it “sickness unto death” – and aloneness is life, abundant life. It is health....
 It is my own experience that there is no greater joy than to be alone; the joy of love is secondary. And the joy of love is possible only if you have known the joy of being alone, because then only do you have something to share. Otherwise, two beggars meeting each other, clinging to each other, cannot be blissful. They will create misery for each other because each will be hoping, and hoping in vain, that “The other is going to fulfill me.”

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  1. UnknownJanuary 26, 2020 at 7:46 AM

    Excellent meaning , If it is understood by everyone, there is no meaning of depression or suicide attempts ..

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  2. UnknownJanuary 26, 2020 at 9:57 AM

    The last lines are very realistic..

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  3. ShawuJanuary 26, 2020 at 5:47 PM

    💖💖💖

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  4. PranjeetJanuary 27, 2020 at 11:07 PM

    So true ❤❤

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  5. Christabella SamuelJanuary 28, 2020 at 3:49 AM

    It's a wonderful article with more knowledgeable and the idea is great. Great work dude nice way of explanation ♥️...

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    1. Abhishek Kuman SumanJanuary 28, 2020 at 4:32 AM

      eminently elated to hear that from you. Merci ,thanks

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  6. UnknownJanuary 31, 2020 at 7:19 PM

    That's an amazing piece I read today

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